Why Birthdays Were Better When You Were A Youngster
Birthdays now are a real drag! I’m 25 and I’ve long passed the point where I would get excited about birthdays, or even ask for presents anymore! Just like Christmas, the magic has gone, in way I wish birthdays didn’t exist. I always organize a night out with friends to celebrate but this is more out of necessity and the fact that it’s social etiquete to do so rather than genuinely wanting to celebrate. it is strange how this gradual shift happens, when we were young we loved birthdays, so much so that we would look forward to them for months, and your later years you wish your birthday was years away. There are probably a tonnoe of reasons for this and one of them was surely that your birthday was all pre-organised by parents.
I recall being 7 years old when I had a bowling party at the local alley. The day began with feverish excitement and the day was kicked by being showered with all kinds of outlandish gifts. Later on my parents drove around town picking up all my friends and ferrying us all to the pool. When we got there staff put on a string of fun games and activities involving huge floats and slides. Afterwards we got dried and birthday presents were distributed, all to me I may add and we finished the day off with gallons of cola and sausage rolls!
To this day I look back upon parties like this fondly and wonder what has changed. Have the stresses and strains of life dulled our enthusiasm for such events? Christmas gifts certainly less appeal now. Would a part still work like this now? Financial constraints are clearly an issue, as well as the fact that the accepted birthday antics for anyone over 18 involves getting totally wasted and having very little memory the next morning of what happened. I say we should bring back kids parties! For my 26th I’m going to arrange a day out at lazer hub followed by a McDonalds!